Becoming a Gentleman

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Today is a big day in my castle.

My oldest son got into his first real fight. When I arrived on the scene, Simeon had worked himself into a lather. The other kid was tenderly nursing a black eye.

And I figured this day, January 24th, in the Year of Our Lord 2018, was as good a day as any to begin this blog.

I have been sitting on this space for awhile, collecting ideas and thoughts and charting a course for what I want this little corner of the interwebs to look like. I have long been fascinated with chivalry, the history of fine gentlemen, and what it means to live this life of honor. Besides the theoretical, it'll be fun to look at style, fashion, food and beverage, as well as nutrition and health and wholeness. Oh, and (like my conversation with Simeon today), how to know which fight is worth fighting.

In short, just like my son today, I want this to be a space for growing into what it looks like to be a gentleman. There won't be anything special here. Just a space for rumination, idea sharing, and exploration. A guide, of sorts. A gentleman's guide.

Welcome.

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